First an Early Happy Mother's Day....
No disrespect, but the way you described your Mom is word for word describes one of my Aunts. In fact I kept waiting to see my Aunt's name in your story.
The time you will share with you daughter reminds me of my Mom (RIP) and what she called "Talk Time" when she would keep my daughter. Once I figured out what was going on, I asked Mom... You really mean "Gossip Time" right? So you can learn what is going on, in my daughters life... You are quite the detective Mom, and ummm that is my job. lol