For 32 years, as a public servant, I was yelled at, lie to, spit at, cursed, accussed of everything great and small. So, it takes a lot to offend me.lol.
However, I did have a relitive who tried her best to offend me and my sis growing up. Case in point. I once was in a coma with meningitis, This relative spoke to me as I layed in the hospital, I could not move a muscle, not even my eyes, but I heard everything she said. "Albert, you look just like you Dad after he died from his 3rd heart attack". What? When I got well, I drove to her house and reminded her of what she told me, as I was fighting for my life... That one did hurt.