Great article... I would first say,, in my humble opinin, when people fall in love, there should be no qualifer or adjective to describe why they love this person or that person. In my world it is , "none my business". If someone does not like me because of who I am, or any discriptors about me, that is fine too. I have no hate in my heart. However, I get it. People have preferences, ok...

A friend of mine woud only marry a girl with dark hair, He would go on and on about how he loved a girl with dark har. Ok, that is his preference. He married a girl with dark hair. However his new wfe is a blonde. Sometimes people change their preference.

AL.