Hello Pamela,
That's a tough one. When my Brother was in his last days, I called him to tell him I could not come see him on the following weekend. I had Covid. It was a difficult conversation to say the least. It was hard for him to skeak with the brain cancer taking over. I hung up, and just looked at my phone, this will be the last conversation I will have with him. I still have the last text I sent him, telling him what he meant to me. Two days later my sis called me at 9:30PM.... Not knowing how to say those last and final words, ...
AL she said, "It's over."
I knew I did not want to make that call, but I am so glad I did.