Hello Pamela, I am so sorry for this, and I am glad to know your husband is so well cared for. Just today, moments before I saw your story, I too had an experience. I was exasperated, (I had to look that one up) I was so tired I sat on the arm of my electric recliner. The weight on one side of the chair, and the chair not having a flat support under the chair, In other words, the chair is sorta high centered under the chair, it almost flippe the chair with me on the arm reast... I was able to jump up,and the chair landed on it's foundation, back to normal. I am not sure who it scared more, me or wifey-wire.
Knowing all about your situation, I am moving food to the bottom of the fridge. Wifey wire is not here during the day, maybe I can crawl to the fridge for some bologna, during the day.
I am praying for you and your husband,
I hope everything gets better.
AL.