I have been there too. However, your trip to the marriage counslor turned out waaay better than mine. We ended up in a divorce, and now we are better off as friends. In fact she just left my house.

Of course I have better sense now, to call my wife and advise her, she was here. Our marriage counselor was also our preacher. He called my Mom after we left, and spilled the beans to my Mom... It nearly crushed her. I had to make a return trip to the preacher, to remind him of his Preacher - Worshiper-privilege.

AL.